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| Google Prompt – Why Indian men stare |
I’m an average Indian, with all the goodness and failing. I have to confess that I’ve my share of stereotyped traits of a typical bad-ass India male. It’s seems there are no shortage of people like me. You can see them STARING at you for no apparent reason.
Staring at Women – A collective Pshyo
So, why do Indian men stare at women? I believe it’s for an obvious reason or just for curiosity sake or is to spot out the difference? Why is it so rampant in India, and it seems it’s acceptable behavior here?
As a women, do you feel they are invading your privacy?
Do you feel less-dignified?
Do you feel vulnerable?
Do you feel violated?
I believe most men look or stare at women to spot revealing body or cleavage or cheeky cheeks or gyrating buttocks (behind stare) or belly, etc?
Off late, I was caught by a known friend when she found that I was eyeing her. I felt bad when I noticed that they caught me off-guard staring at them. Also, felt bad and feels sorry that I made them feel uncomfortable.
I’m just wondering…
As a parent will you teach your kids the right way to behave when they go out? Does a finishing school or your regular school tell you the right way to look – look into their eyes and talk. While occasional transgression is fine, constant prying eyes is not a good habit to live with.
Here are few good reads from the net:
1) The Observer or the star gazer kind.or the X ray vision – from Huffington Post
2) Question about starring in Quora and the replies
3) Peek-a-boo Being Physical
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