Arguing With No Reward

why we argue without any change!

We argue with our friends, our parents, our spouse, with politicians, Whatsapp group members, virtual strangers….all for the sake of stating our facts as the right source.

After all these bitter arguments by expressing our point of view, is there any winner? Is there any change of heart? Do you manage to convince other person that your point is right?

I bet all debates end in stalemate. No one is the winner and all it leaves is a bad taste, lots of negativity and a dud feeling that comes from a hapless feeling of not able to change other person’s point of view.

Still why do we argue? Why can’t we accept other person’s opinion and move on? Why waste the time when we very well know that other person is not going to change the point of view?

I guess there are lot of articles written about it. I will share few for your reference.

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