Thanks for Policing and Bearing Us

Today I was stopped by the traffic cop. He was letting the traffic from the other side pass. And all the riders from my side waited. Soon, his hands waved and we went past him.

What was I thinking then. How would be a day in the life of a traffic constable standing at the cross roads. He’s there – rain or shine. Does his feet tire? What about the dust, smoke from exhaust he inhales while on duty?

I remember how we crib in unison at our workplace when the A/C gives us a shiver or when there’s a break-down of the A/C unit.

Does he get a nod of appreciation from the public or from his boss? What motivates him to do his job an extra bit – Or he goes on doing his job, no matter what.

We the public have a different notion about the traffic cops. One common opinion is this – they just find any opportunity to fine or wait to be bribed. As we ride our vehicles on the road, we are vary of getting stopped by the cop. Will he ask for a thing which we don’t have? Is my pollution certificate in order? What about Insurance? Is it renewed? What if he asks 500 and can I settle for 300?

Life as a Traffic Cop in India

It’s a not a easy job to be out in the sun and smoke. Apart from the duty hours, the work space is a badly organized building. The loo must be stinking, also no place to rest if they are unwell. I have been to few police station and I have seen the haphazard manner in which thing are kept and managed in a Police station.

Give Thanks to the Traffic Cop – Unimaginable!
What if there’s a way to thank him for his unseen work? What would you gift to a traffic cop? I read somewhere that people give gifts to cops on one day of the year. What if we bring such a generosity here? I feel in India right now, we need to build the community feeling – bond with the public servants and public. It could be the cop and the public or a clerk and officials with the public.

What will you choose to gift a traffic cop?

  1. Roses
  2. Sunglass to beat the harsh light
  3. Showpiece for his home
  4. A coupon to buy cool milk shake and share it with his friends/family
  5. Feet massage or pedicure at the Spa/salon
  6. Face mask to protect him from the dust
  7. Sunscreen
  8. A/C for his home.
  9. Ionizer
  10. A medical check up and medical-insurance

Can you think of Any Cop Who has Impressed You?

In Trivandrum, I have seen one lady traffic cop whose work looks commendable. This lady manages the traffic near to Cosmopolitan Hospital. She’s always seen active, friendly and doing her job with mindfulness – probably a true Ikigai follower.

Anyone reading this blog has any story to share?
DO you know any cop whom you would like to give a small gift?

20 Summers Ago

Today evening I was returning home to be with my mom and stay back. Then I thought of my present day routine – how I’ve become more home-centric person. What has happened to my previous life – when I was mostly away from home.

That was many summers ago, when I was busy in my little word, meeting friends, doing errands and sitting on projects which was supposed to be long done.

Time Turns Tables

I don’t believe in the above line. However, it has come almost true for me. Though not by chance, but more by fate, I am now living a boring, sedentary life. Boring is not an apt word, but that sums it all.

Love of Sardines ( Mathi Meen)

sardine fine
Sardine for lunch

I been a sea food lover for a long long time. Probably, I got this trait from my dad, who too was much fond of fish. I remember seeing him eating a piece of fish curry before he leaves to his office, after his afternoon siesta.

It’s strange how taste, habits, behaviors gets carried to the next generation and so on.

Coming to the topic of fish, I also have a habit of taking pic of food, especially if the fish is fresh and well prepared. Often times, fish is deep fried or it’s over cooked. The sight of over cooked fish really pisses me off as I find it as a mark of carelessness or lack of respect towards the fish.

These days I often complaint a lot when the fish curry made by the chechi is cooked beyond a certain time. One mistake people or hotel folks make is that they make the gravy and then put it in high flame. Man, that a bloody mistake. Also, the fish fry from most hotel is like a piece of charcoal. The meat gets burned and there’s nothing to munch from the fish. This is mostly true when it comes to sardines. I wonder why they make this mistake or a habit.

I guess it’s time for me to start a hotel which is exclusive about fish and different preparation.

Arguing With No Reward

why we argue without any change!

We argue with our friends, our parents, our spouse, with politicians, Whatsapp group members, virtual strangers….all for the sake of stating our facts as the right source.

After all these bitter arguments by expressing our point of view, is there any winner? Is there any change of heart? Do you manage to convince other person that your point is right?

I bet all debates end in stalemate. No one is the winner and all it leaves is a bad taste, lots of negativity and a dud feeling that comes from a hapless feeling of not able to change other person’s point of view.

Still why do we argue? Why can’t we accept other person’s opinion and move on? Why waste the time when we very well know that other person is not going to change the point of view?

I guess there are lot of articles written about it. I will share few for your reference.

Pork Vindaloo Trivandrum Style

Pork Vindaloo and Rice

Pork Vindaloo Fan Club!

I’m not a avid pork eater. Yet, I like enjoy pork in gravy and dry form. At our place, this dish is made when we have a get-together and at that time, it’s mostly pork vindaloo. The taste for pork dishes started late in my life – after I got married. Till then my Mom had a bad idea about having pork. She used to say about the brain fever disease people have got after eating pork. Also, I never enjoyed eating her pork.

How many of you like Pork?
What about Pork Sausage or ham?
Have you had pork vindaloo ( not the Goan or Anglo Indian preparation) from Trivandrum?
What’s your fav dish in pork – Is it vindaloo or pepper roast or something else?

How Many Blog Posts Before We Hit Steady Traffic?

Blogging is super competitive field. Everyday scores of posts on every conceivable topics are written by the best. This means, my post and many like this will be somewhere languishing in the big dark pit of the web – unseen, unread.

How to Get People to Read Your blog?

Answer is simple – Write things what your readers would like to read. Write well – above the level you see here. Write with a purpose or a goal in mind.

How many Blogs Posts in a Day?

I guess it’s not the quantity that really matter. It’s the value you put in the blog. After writing the post, pause and see if the matter is worth a read. Think from the point of view of the visitor – this applies to B2B or B2B or even a personal blog like this.

How Many Blogs I plan to Post in a Month?

I think, I should be posting at least 50 blog posts. This will included images, videos from Youtube or quotes.

Debug Life in 2020

I don’t know how I have screwed things up? Nothing much is working for me – however, I often wake-up with fresh hope and plan. This is the good part, but the sad part is that things are not moving. Sometimes I feel struck in the same position.

How to Keep Moving or progressing?

Start a project with a goal in Mind
– I have often come across this tip in Seth Godin’s blog. Often I have started my day with a plan in a diary. But why am I not consistently falling in these goals?

Track the Daily and Weekly Progress
Only thing that I have tracked in black and white is my walking routine. I have a seperate book for that part of life and for which I am happy. Now, I got to pen the rest of the activities in a book or journal so that I know where I am going in my task.

What are your goals for 2020?


Better Health
Loose weight
Earn More – Build savings
Buy a home, Car
Have more friends to call
Become socially popular
Share thoughts
Build Assets
Buy gold
Read more
Watch more movies
Love more ( Bring testosterone levels up)

Network and Meet People Through This Blog

One of the objective from this blog is to network with like-minded people, know more people from planet earth and be able to meet people from the two places – Trivandrum and Bangalore.

Why Blog, Why Not Social Networks?

I am there on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, but all these years I haven’t met a single soul for a real meet through these networks. What a shame! what a waste of time!

Well, I might not have asked someone out or gave a clue that I am looking for real meets, rather than just sharing some picture and getting likes and comments.

What all Will I share on this blog?

1. Ideas related to biz
2. Pictures ( Mostly taken from mobile)
3. Books and snippets
4. YouTube Videos
5. Quotes
6. Travel Pics
7. Seafood Pics
8. Hobbies
9. Start-up Ideas
10. Gadgets that I own or plant to own
11. wish list
12. Kitchen Stuff
13. Stationery
14. Garden pics ( Terrarium, Kokedama)
15. Latest ventures ( Candle Making, Soap Making)
16. Music and Movies
17. Craft related posts

Reboot Life and Blog

New year, 2020. Another calendar filled with a new list of goals, failed plans and fresh plans.

Why Did I Start a Fresh Blog?

B’cos my earlier blogger blog got screwed by my own antics. It was all going well, when I decided to rename the blog. And that stupidity costed all my ranking, my visitors which was around 200 per day. Damn!

Now, I have to do all the stuff from scratch! What an effort and time!

Lessons learned?

Don’t rename on an experimental basis. If it’s an old domain, then stick to it. Or, you should be some wizard or a net nerd who can reroute the traffic to the new domain without much loss.

Have you made such mistakes?
Is there a agency or service to clarify or get guidance on migration?

Another Epiphany

Through the rabbit hole…

What do you see!

— Oscar Wilde.

Here’s the first blog on my latest blog which goes by the name – Epiphany of Things. Why this epiphany?

I have got a liking for this word, when I first saw in a marketing blog – it’s was CK’s Marketing Epiphany. From that time, I stumbled upon this word many times. That doesn’t answer the question – why did I choose this word?

Is it more familiarity or the fact I was looking for something that might sound cool?

Fact is that I’m bad at naming blogs, or a website or a business. I use whatever is simple, with minimum words. That’s probably one reason I have used Pebbles Terrarium or Alpha Bottle cutting or Ace Bread Making or Campus Web Career. All these business I have ventured are just plane Jane words.

Back to the topic of Naming.

I had few other thought when I wanted to use in this blog – ideas, Hive, Meetups, Story, Serendipity, Passion, etc. Using these words in a blog generator yielded no result. Btw, I want to start a name generator site, just for Indian users.

Okay. The big idea to use this world for my blog is that I couldn’t find anything better and I’m not good with this job. So, let it be!