Weight You Carry!

Whatsapp Message

Often, I come across thoughtful msgs on Whatsapp. But, as with Whatsapp application, there are a ton of such messages coming down everyday. Does that make one mute to meaningful one, or do we save these message for further introspection.

Well, after I discovered Whatsappweb, I have started to download and decided to share it on my blog. So, here’s the first on that kind of series.

Question to you!
Do you think you have close pal or buddy or partner to share your heavy thoughts!

Blink – Those Pop Up Memories of Yesteryears

There are times, sometimes very odd moments when we get a flashback of a moment we had lived. All of a sudden, past becomes the present. It seems, it was something that we are reliving that moment again.

Today was one such day, many the day was fractured with such thoughts. Did it cause happiness or gloom or regret? Not sure, but they just popped up from nowhere. I thought of the boys in school, the songs one of them sang. 
What are your such moments? Are you the kind who get’s flashback on most days?

What are the moments you remember the most?

  • What is the kind of thought you have in grade four?
  • What is the first thought on that day – a day someone in your family passed away?
  • In school years – which moment do you think the most?
  • When you won or achieved a goal, what was your elated feeling?
  • Lost or failed – how did it feel that day?
  • An argument with your spouse – What triggered it? How did it resolve?
  • Miss-judgment about an agreement – What or how did you overlook it?
  • Feeling lost – How did you feel when you felt all alone?
  • Happiness in pay check – remember that elated feeling you got in one of the early working years!
  • Great shot – You wracked the ball and you felt like a champion

Kochu Veli Station Pics

Kochu Veli Station

Veli Station Overbridge

Kochu Veli Station

Veli Station

Walkway 

Stairs to Overbridge – Kochu Veli

Veli Lagoon – Shot from Train

Crossing the backwater

Still Waters!

Weeds floating on the river

Frequently Used Train Service from Kochu Veli

Bangalore Express -16316 ( Kochuveli to Bangalore )

I find this a convenient train for these aspects. If I book 2 tier or 3 tier, boarding is very easy at Kochu Veli. It’s right at the entrance of the Kochu Veli station. No need to haul the bags for a long distance, and suitable for senior citizens who can avoid long walk to sleeper compartments.

Moreover, I get down at Cantonment station. Here too, 3A and 2A stops right near the entrance. The auto rickshaw or cabs are just a walk away. So, both ways it’s convenient for us and those who stay at places close to this station or people like us who stay at Domlur.

This train runs on all days from Kochu Veli station. 

How are you today?

This post is inspired by the movie

Rich in love
Rich in gifts
Poor in love
Troubled in pain
Longing heart
Wishing him best
Crying heart
Dreamcatcher
Bold move first
Grim feeling just poured
Somber moody mood
Lively at heart
Just leave me alone
They don’t see my dark, lonely side
Building, one brick at a time
Wealthy and overflowing
Whom do I share my wealth
Goodness time
Busy to notice anything
Regret about leaving her
Sadness around me
Defeated – all chips down
Exploring new relationship
Confused with her moodiness
Cant’ understand him
Feeling brand new me
Cut the shit out
I know your true color
Why did you do it to me
This is not fair
I got a good deal
Just in time for a big move

Sentimental Touchy Comments on YouTube

 Brother were art thou ” candy mountains”

Now Listening!

I head this song after it was mentioned in a newsletter from Tim Ferris. While listening to this tune, the YouTube comments caught my attention. Then I realized how touchy and teary are some of the comments. I think I should do more reading of the comments. There’s life in them.

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..even a poor man can dream… wonderful thoughts…

I remember my grandpa used to sing me this song when I was little. I’ve loved it so much and it makes me think of him every time I hear it. The song always made me think about what heaven is like.

When i was little my papa would play this and would give me rock candy. He still does it sometimes.

This song always comes to me mind whenever i’m drunk and sad, and i end up whistling and singing in the streets and no one understands and it makes me happy for a while

Fitting. Lost my precious first born daughter , 3 July, 2016.  She was swept away in a flash flood car accident, near OKC, body  retrieved in a nearby river.  Had just had dinner with her in her favorite Chinese restaurant in Norman, OK.   God Rest Ye, Dorinda.  Your eternally loving Daddy………. Peace forevermore.

On August 3rd 2018, 3 friends and I were exploring a tunnel underneath St. Paul,mn and a storm rolled in. The tunnel began rapidly filling with water, sweeping us off of our feet and sending us hurdling down the tunnel at high speed. As I fought to stay afloat while breathing in water, I couldn’t help but think I was dead. That my friends were dead. As I went under the surface of the water, I surrendered myself. Then miraculously, I’m atop of the water in the Mississippi River. Seeing the lightning and lights from the bridge, gave me hope. I heard my friends screaming and fighting the tremendous current. Even though my clothes weighed me down I was able to use every last bit of strength to make to shore with my friends. Im listening to this because as I went down in the river I prayed. Prayed my ass off. I lived and my friends did as well. I don’t know what to think if my prayer was answered or not but I’m eternally grateful that I can still breathe. Thanks to whoever took the time to read this. I still can’t believe we all lived.

My mother is dying. She’s at the last stage of dementia. I use to sing this song for her every time I visit her. Then her eyes are blinking and she’s mumbling thid song with me.  My mother, my dobro, me, this song and the tears. In a few weeks she will reunite with my father in a not so lonely grave.

I am playing this at my dads funeral!

I am weary let me rest

I want this played at my funeral

Such a beautiful, deep feeling this song has, so sweet and plaintive. Chokes me up at times.

One of the hardest things in life is saying goodbye to a loved one.  Thank God we have the Hope of being reunited one day soon.

This reminds me of volunteering with Hospice. I held the hand of people who had no one there to hold on to. Interestingly all of them talk of their family coming to get them. :)

While random browsing on YouTube, I hit one more gem – The Manhattans – Kiss and Say Goodbye

Btw, have you come across sentimental comments on forums or on channels like YouTube? Does it hit you, the way I got touched?

Let me know!

Time to Build an Unique Version of Amazon

The way online stores like Amazon or Flipkart and others are growing makes me jittery. In some way, like others I like the convenience of buying things without any hassle.

Often, I find this kind of big shopping like a store without much uniqueness or humanness. It’s all going out like this – SALE, BILLIONS SALE,  MEGA SALE, GREAT INDIAN SALE! CHEAP DEALS, FAST CHECKOUT!

Unique STORE

 Just wondering if there could be a market place which sells only handcrafted, unique items. Why shouldn’t there be one such kind of eCommerce store! Why can’t it be Made In India!

What should this store sell!

1. Sell things with care – hand printed gifted covers making the delivery a joyous thing
2. Sell unique services – from beauty services to escort services
3 Promote art ( Not just mere art, anything that has an art value)
4. One-of-the-kind lamp shades, Teeshirts, printed saris, hand-made books
5. Sofas ( unique as the maker), designed helmets, customized belts
6. Pots or plant hangers

Do you think, such an exclusive store can survive in this highly competitive market, and also when these products can find a place in Amazon too.

Living with Minor Irritance

Today while waking in the park, a little bit of pebble or stone got into my shoe. It was a wee-bit of a stone kind of thing which kept moving inside the shoe as I walked under the canopy of trees.

At first I thought of giving my walk a pause, but I moved on with the irritation it was causing. I then thought of how other person would have done in a similar situation.

Would you stop, remove the shoes and take it out? Or would you carry on the walk, hopping that this stone will move to one corner of the shoes, not causing that inconvenience.

Also, got me thinking of how we carry on our lives with minor distractions which are lodged in our mind or something physical that we hope it will disappear by itself.

Of course, there are people who act immediately to find out the problem, try to remove it and then continue their walk.

Ok! This is just a thought from today! Next with another story. 

Dream a Little

A year just started to turn its leaflets. People like me are turning new chapters, hoping for a better story. There are many things to do, uncompleted task to fulfill and pencils to be sharpened.

How many of us will get to cross the finish line?
Out of 10 which task will get attention?
Will more goodness in our land prevail?
Who will light the lamp?
How many will slip and falter at their task?
When will they learn?
Will we prosper?

Warren Buttet Quote

Quote

On Expectations: Honesty is very expensive gift. Do not expect it from cheap people.
This line got me thinking on people who hardly keep their word, lie through their mouth, and who are totally unreliable.
From the point of an employer, how to find trustworthy and dependable employees? Is there a way to check these traits before employing people. I have read that Warren Buffet values people who are super, super honest! Meaning, his confidante are know this rare and highly valued trait – HONESTY!