Why are Keralites Negatively happy?

I spend a big chunk of my life in Trivandrum. I was holed in this paradise thinking this is the only paradise. Only reading showed a window of outside world. Then I moved out of Kerala and settled in Bangalore. Now, I could see Kerala in a different lense. I knew only the rosy part of Kerala, like the:

  1. High literacy rate
  2. Low infant mortality rate
  3. Talented workforce 
  4. Religious harmony ( moderate)
  5. Political maturity (so called)
All these stats and figures are positive of my state, but there are some shocking grey side to God’s Own Country. What are those points:
  • Aggravated socialistic mentality ( Depending and blaming everything on Govt or on America)
  • Steep gender divide ( Rigid social norms on man and women interaction)
  • High levels of negativity – Saying NO to every project – Any fool can say NO
  • Rising divorce rates ( Men not able to accept women’s new role)
  • Frequent bandh/hartal & high hand of union 
  • Resentment towards business – Even small biz are looked as bourgeoisie 
  • Rampant favoritism and  nepotism 
  • High dowry – Regular social norm
  • Fetish for gold ( Connected with hefty dowry)
  • Rising number of gold pledge shops ( Residential borrowing shooting up)
So, the list goes on and one. But what I’m optimistic about the future of Kerala. I see two things that’s going to make a sea change in the life, habit and lifestyle of people.

1) News paper media will loose it’s sheen and subscriber base
2) Small business ventures, esp home based, freelancers will increase
3) Power with the bureaucracy or clerks will wane down
4) Digitization of paper work will reduce corruption
5) Traditional universities will die. Watch out!
(Many low quality Engineering and MBA colleges will shut down)
6) Online learning will take a higher role
7) Less importance on traditional schooling or higher studies
8) Social media use by citizens will pose a headache and threat to politicians,and bureaucrats

There are my thoughts. If you have similar thoughts or like to carry a conversation on these line, you’re welcome. BTW, visit my meetup in Bangalore post. 

Christmas in Trivandrum

Yet another Christmas in Trivandrum and here’s what I felt during this somber Christmas

  • Priest at Vellayambalam Church read out his message from a note. His message was good, but he could have made it much better…
  • Cakes of different shapes and sizes lined up in all the bakeries, but it was just looking too ordinary ( Why can’t anyone make something remarkable, package it better, make it look more special
  • Meat shops were crowded ..nothing special. All packed with people, and surroundings were unclean 
  • Forgot to send Christmas cards …Next time I should collect postal address
  • Didn’t receive any Christmas calls, neither I made any calls (Bad both ways)
  • Drove in my scooter through Kowdiar, koravankonam road late evening… enjoyed it…next year, would like to drive in a convertible 
  • Back home by 11:00 PM…Too early to hit the bed…I want more night life

101 Things to do in Trivandrum – Attractions & Unusual

Are you a first time visitor to Trivandrum? Ever wonder what’s there to explore this capital city? Are you looking for a closer, more personal experience with the people in this city – knowing few of them or participate in an experience ?

Here are the list of few places to visit in Trivandrum and things you might try while you’re in this coastal city.

1) Stroll around Napier museum premises or just relax or read a book, take pictures, share it with your friends. Visit the natural history museum, or randomly start talking to people who you think will tell you more about the city. This place is closed on Monday.

2) Take rest in one of the museum benches or lie down on the green grass surrounding Napier Museum .

3) Visit the open zoo in Trivandrum.

4) Browse for old books at the used book store near to the Public library (Palayam). If you’re lucky, you’ll get hands on priceless treasures at a bargain price. I’ve made really good collection of National Geographic Magazine and Chase books from these shops.

5) Walk inside the Victorian styled Public Library in Trivandrum. Or go inside the reference section to browse books.

 6) Take one of the city buses during rush hour. Once you are inside the bus, guess what each one does for living. If you’re a good face reader, it will be a good time pass. 🙂

7) Explore the last frontier – Space. Priyadarshini Planetarium. Located at Post Master General (PMG) junction, there is one antiquated Science Museum close to this building. Mind you, I found it too boring.

8) Walk through the corridors of Public Office building ( opp to Museum). Peek inside one of the Govt offices to see bureaucracy in slow motion. See stacks of files in each desk, and clerks of sizes and shapes working, walking, and doing the ‘hard work’. Step inside their canteen to have a hot tea.

9) Write a letter to a long lost friend. Visit Public Office building and drop it in one of the letter box inside this building.

10) Take a walk around the beautiful winding road around Kanakakunnu palace. Best during morning or by evening.

11) Mill with the devotees visiting Hanuman temple, at PMG junction.

12) Walk around the majestic granite, seven storied Padanabha temple. This temple recently came on news for it’s golden treasures. Just visualize the treasures inside these granite blocks.What shapes and sizes lies inside this 15th temple. Also think without limits on how these treasures made its way inside this temple.

13) Go for a movie at Sree Kumar or at Sree Vishak. During my colledge years ( 87 – 88 ), I used to see  English movies. At that time, balcony ticket costed just Rs 6/-  Wonder Years

14) Hire an auto for three or four hours and go for a joy ride around Vellayambalam, Kowdiar, or anywhere around Trivandrum. Stop at coffee shops to share a hot steaming cup of tea, and trade stories with the auto driver

15) Explore night food joints in Trivandrum. Visit Buhari restaurant at East Fort to savor their unique mutton curry. You can choose to have mutton with Puttu, dosa or paratta. If you’re lucky, you can get Mutton bone dish (nelli) and there’s a curry with goat testicles.

16) Step inside or window shop at any of the gold shops inside East Fort. Ponder on why these folks buy gold. Is it for a fat dowry? Is it for savings? Or is it b’cos of surplus funds? I vouch for the first one..

17) Mill around the budget shoppers inside Chalai market. Visit chalai vegetable market to see how traders sell vegetables in small lots. Further walk and few turns will lead to a lane where you can buy mud pots.

18) Are you a second hand hunter? They Marakada road near Chalia has couple of shops selling old and vintage stuffs. From used phones to antique keys or to handcuffs …if you’re lucky

19) Interested in history or the life of Travancore prince and princesses? On place to get high quality prints of our old maharaja is from Maharaja Studio, run by Mr Rajan. He is the official photographer of  Kowdiar royal family.  Probably, they can help you to Kowdiar palace. Call them at 0471 243 3233 for more details.

20) Cool off the heat from your body…enjoy a good swim at Public Swimming pool Vellayabalam or the try the swimming pool at Mascot hotel in Trivandrum.

21)

Cafe Sarwaa

Sarwaa 

 Visit Sarwaa, a trendy lifestyle store located at Shathamangalam – curios items, home art, terracotta jewelry, lingerie, organic products, cut pieces of jewelry, etc. Also, relax time in their cafe.

22) While you are in Trivadrum, visit one of the many coffee houses dotting the city. While, the old charm of coffee house is lost with modernity, there many old timers like me who are regular visitors. Probably you can order strong coffee, sit for long hours, read the faces of people who walk in or look around the old posters hanging on the walls.

23) Get an escort/guide to take you around Trivandrum. One of my friend, one Mr Ramesh works as an recognized guide/escort. He speaks good English, and can give a good perspective about the city, the life, etc. He can be contacted by phone:

24)

Kerala’s Martial Arts Form – kalarippayat

 Interested in Kerala’s traditional martial arts form? Learn more about Kalari Payattu from Google. For a first-hand experience, visit CVN Kalari, Fort, Trivandrum, India. There are specified timing to see the practices or you can also attend one of short term classes conducted by this Kalari institute.

25) Have passion towards fine arts, sculpture, graphics, etc. Then visit Trivandrum Fine Arts College, which is located at the heart at the heart of Trivandrum city (Palayam, Trivandrum). Go to their office, and ask where you can see the student’s art work.

26)

Nirodh Condoms – Indian Family Planning  

Tour inside the condom factory in Trivandrum  I’ve visited while I was studying in Trivandrum. This high-tech condom factory run by Hindustan Latex is located at place called Poojapura. Contact their office to find out the official timing for factory visits.

27) Visit Vellayani lake early in the morning. It’s a vast expanse of water body which is utilized for fishing, agriculture, etc.

28) Go for toddy tapping experience. You can accompany a toddy tapper who collects the fermented toddy from the coconut trees. Apart from seeing the process, you can drink fresh toddy right from the tree.

29) Visit a traditional handicraft unit which has hand run looms. The place which is famous for is called Balaramapurm. Google it for more information or you can get in touch with your travel guide.

30) Hire a boat and go through the Karamana river. It’s a long serpentine river which ends in the arabian sea.

31) Visit Thumba rocket launching station. Get in touch with the public relation office to know the places you can visit and get a brief about the activities of this place.

32) Ambassador cars are rare now in Trivandrum, but you can still hire one. Why don’t you hire an ambassador car for a day and explore the nook and corner of this city. It’s a different experience to ride in the sofa seated cars.

33) Contact someone who can arrange a vegetarian meals from one of the Brahmin’s house in Eastfort. While you’re there, you might be interested to see their peculiar house construction, and learn about their community.

34) Pattor has a catholic cemetery. For those who like to see and read the epitahs on old graves, there’re few old tomb stones.

If you’re an offbeat traveler, with interest to get up-close and personal with the people of this town, then here’s an opportunity. You can meet for a coffee or dine with some level headed people living in this town. 

Probably you can dine with the person from the royal family or with a graphic designer, or teacher, an architect, or a rock musician or a classical signer, dancer, modern painter, government cler, photographer, professional gardener, or a zoo keeper, a software programmer, Ayurveda masseur, or a person who has similar interest, then it’s possible. 


Or, it’s even possible to dine with a family in Trivandrum. There will be some cost, but you a chance to visit their house, chit-chat with them, and then dine with them. Something which Mealtango.in arranges in other cities in India. 

Again, I would recommend you to get in touch with a guide who can show you around.  He might be able to arrange a dinner with a person from a background you are interested. 


More to follow…this post is under construction

27 Wonderful things to do in Goa – Vacation Activities

So, you have decided to spend your vacation in Goa. Next, obvious thing on mind would be to book ticket and hotel accommodation in Goa. But once you’re in Goa, what have to decided to do or explore? Do you have an itinerary to follow or you are just like me when it comes to planning a trip.

We often wonder how we can spend our vacation doing the best, or even doing nothing in a place like Goa. There’re many way to unwind in Goa, but only few options are visible to most of us. It this quest, that made me write this blog post.

  1. Soak your feet in the Arabian sea…numerous beaches right from popular beach Baga 
  2. Get yourself a feet massage from one of the feet parlours
  3. Drink Fenny to wild abandon… It has a different kick, a different flavor 
  4. Go shack hopping…drinking one pint at one joint 
  5. Get lucky, spot topless westerners taking sun bath 🙂
  6. Hire a vehicle and drive to the unexplored spots in Goa
  7. Visit St Peter church or any numerous church around Goa
  8. Join the milling crowd at the Sunday market 
  9. Get a relaxing massage by the beach 
  10. Get inked in Goa 
  11. Go for a local site seeing conducted by Goa tourism  
  12. Learn Goan cuisine by attending Goan cooking class at Siolim house or 
  13. Meet and talk to a Goan couple …learn more about their life & more
  14. Wake up early to go for road trip or just walk by the misty sea shore
  15. Try out pork vindaloo, sarpotal or other authentic Goan dish ( Batti Village)
  16. Try out sea sport – most beaches has para gliding, boat ride, etc
  17. Go for crab hunting or fishing 
  18. Drink beer from morning …try out all the small local beer joint and strike a conversation with locals
  19. Explore the noctural life in Goa to the fullest – More than Tittos or Mojos, try out local rave parties – Be careful on joining groups you’re not familiar
  20. Get lucky – Join a overnight casino at one of the floating casino joints
  21. Visit Panaji – Visit museum, walk by the pavement overlooking the harbor
  22. Experience pleasure pill – Get some weed or some happiness pill 
  23. Explore old cemeteries in Goa
  24. For a trance fans, a late night trace party would be an ideal trip 

To be completed….

21 Holiday Destinations Around Bangalore

If there’s one thing that corporate slaves and nerds from Bangalore look for at the end of the year is a short break from work. It’s the only time of the year when they get a breathing space as US counterparts take a long break.

The trend these days is to search online for information about places, tour packages, or deals through Groupon or Snap deal kind of sites. And if you look at the most search results, it often ends now where. So, I thought of penning down the popular destination around Bangalore. I hope it would be helpful for those looking for a holiday destination..

25 Vacation Ideas From Bangalore 

  1. Drive to Ooty. Stop by Bandipur forest range – Drive slowly to catch pachyderms or deer 
  2. Yercaurd is known as mini Kodaikanal – 
  3. Wayanad – Another green stopover for folks living in this concrete jungle
  4. Mysore – Visit Mysore Palace, Chamundi hills, or stay back at one of the resorts
  5. Go try your luck at fishing at Cavery fishing camp – Throw the bait for Mahasheer
  6. Visit Art of Living (AOL) center located at off Kanakpura road
  7. Splash in various water theme parks like  Wonder LA, Fun World,
  8. Drive towards Nandi hills – 
  9. If you like hiking, then plan a trip to Kumara Parvatha, or Bandipur forest range. 
  10. Take a jungle retreat by visiting Kabini, or Jungle Lodges or if you’re deep pockets, then you can stay at Orange County

Eat That Frog! Brian Tracy Youtube Video

My boss introduced me to Brian Tracy. She was more fascinated by Brian Tracy’s email campaigns. I also subscribed to his emails, looking for nuggets of life improvement points. Apart form the books he has good number of his videos about motivation, successful living, on sales, etc on Youtube.

In one of my visit to #1 M.G Road Mall, at Trinity circle, I saw this book on the shelf  of Oxford stall – Eat That Frog.

There are many takeaways from this book, Eat That Frog from Brian Tracy and it’s a treasure mine for procrastinators like me.

Goan Food Festival At Taj Vivanta Bangalore

Hoarding at MG Road – Taj Vivanta  

Taj Vivanta Bangalore 

Imagine you’re driving your vehicle .. what do you do when you stop at the traffic signal?

Often my eye gaze inside cars, robbing the commuters privacy…thanks to knee-jerk reaction of Govt decision to remove sunscreen cover. Apart from people watching, I scan the road side hoardings, reading the copy.

Once during a traffic stops at Trinity Circle signal, I saw this hoarding in front of  Taj Vivanta, Bangalore.

And this hoarding in front of  Taj Vivanta, at Trinity Circle, M.G Road, is doing a fantastic publicity with these cool promotions. Be it dinner bash or food festival, or special dinner, buffet, brunch, this banner will speak in apt words.

Perfect copy, with best fitting graphics. Someone’s creative juices are tested here. Great job to the Ad Man or Ad Women who’s behind it! Can I meet you? Drink is on me!

Wah, Taj

Communist Thoughts and Me

During my school days I often heard this concept from people, movies and popular folk lore – Profit is a bad name. Every where in 70’s and 80’s people resented private businesses, business owners and enterprises.

Why did profit get a bad name?
Blame it on the secular, socialist ideals of India, and more so in Kerala. Communist has only one common enemy – Private Enterprises. According to them, they exploited labor class and pocked all profits to themselves. It’s a rarity to hear business owners in good light.

In 70’s and 80’s era Malayalam movies, private owners played as villain, rapist and evil doers. Public lapped this concept and government workers from Clerk to officials were the harbingers of equality and justice. Large extend to this concept was brought in by USSR ( Russia). The big propaganda machine of communists brain washed Indians by taking the role of guardian of Indian people.

I remember reading or browsing Soviet Union, the B&W journal from Russia which portrayed rosy picture of freedom, liberty, economic wealthy and prosperity to all. I used to idolize these pictures of abundance and fat Russian ladies with big smiles..

It didn’t take a lot of time to break this mirage. Soviet union crumbled under the weight of it’s own false tales and Mr Manmohan Singh out of desperation opened Indian economy into new privately owned era..

Now in the year of 2013, we have transformed into a consumerist society. Old norm has given to an individualistic form of life. Did we progress?

Family ties are broken, neighborhood gossips are gone, and it’s truly a private life. Money has become the bonding factor for people, companies and for survival. It’s a world of people with money or without it. Where do you stand?
Summary:

  • Is profit still a bad word?
  • Does private enterprise play a role in social reformation?
  • Where are we going from here?

31 Things to Do or Explore in Bangalore

Bangalore is a hub for travelers, fortune seekers, job hunter, recruiters, angel investors, industrialists, corrupt babus, and home to millions of obscure folks like me. And, if you’re new to erstwhile Garden City, then here’s a quick guide on what to see and experience in Bangalore.

One thing for sure, there more life beyond the grid lock traffic, blasting horns and concrete buildings. It’s all possible if you spot what like to do and how.

This short post is an attempt to list out places, events, activities you can indulge while in Bangalore. Call it a runaway guide to Bangalore’s Hot & Cold Spots

Explore Bangalore by Walk


Following the footsteps of London Walks, Bangalore Walk offers an unique experience for you to explore this erstwhile ‘Pensioner Paradise’ by FOOT. Yes, it’s a great opportunity to learn the history, culture, view the architectural splendor of Bangalore by a walking tour guide. Bangalorewalks does this walk tour and does it really well. This wonderful team organizes foot trips around Bangalore city centres and old monuments.

Visit their website to learn about their cultural trips around Bangalore, or call these numbers for details, #98455 23660 or 98450 68416). Apart from group trips, they offer customized tour for larger groups..

Get Lucky  Bibliophile – Buy Rare & Used Books in Bangalore

Collection of Used Books at Blossom Book House

If you’re a bibliophile, then there are couple of used book stores in Bangalore. There’s one such store at Church Street, is Blossom Book house at Contact # Tel: 25320400,25559733. Next one is ‘The Bookworm’ , Brigade Road , Bangalore Phone: (080) 40913205

Relax Your Mind Body with Ayurveda Massage in Bangalore 
Get a touch of glow to your body and spirit with a relaxing Ayurvedic massage. You can choose the right  body massages based on what you like; therapy level, treatment, cooling your body or just relaxing massage. There are couple of Ayurveda centers close to my house, one such place is Sagar Ayurveda.

Party High in Pubs and Lounge Bars
Despite the midnight deadline in Bangalore, many uptown pubs and lounge bars opens gates for great music, ambiance, food and dance. After a long day, you can visit these joints for a drink & get a chance to meetup with local fellas & girls. There’re couple of good joints in UB City or you can visit Hard Rock Cafe, Bangalore or places like iBar, etc offers different genres of music.

Buy Memorabilia From Cavery Emporium
Run by Govt of Karnataka, Cavery emporium (shop) has a wide selection of unique lacquer wood products, artifacts, or sandal wood products or Mysore silk saris  It’s situated at the entrance of Brigade road, M.G, Road, Bangalore.

For the Dramatists in You – Theater Show in Bangalore
Bangalore is known for wide-range of dramas, plays and stage shows. You can select English, Hindi or Kannada shows and it’s usually held at Chithrakala Parishath, Rankashankara, Alliance Franciase, Chowdry Memorial Hall. Check on the event page of Times of India, to know the latest shows happening in Bangalore

Feast on BarbecueTake trip on a gastronomic overdrive by feasting on grills and barbecue. One best place I had Barbecue is at Barbecue Nation at Indira Nagar. They have unlimited starters that include fish (Basa), prawns, chicken and vegetables.

Shop at Commercial Street 
This ever busy street in Bangalore is known for all kinds of shops, stores and eating joints. It’s ideal place to shop for bags, foot wear, trinkets, and 100 Rs slippers.  .

Tour to Bangalore Palace
Visit this granite palace that has close semblance with any of the medieval European castle or palace. Take a walk around this sprawling campus, touch those ivy covered granite walls, and  the click pics of the old horse carriages lined up at one side of this place. Best time to visit here is during morning. See if you can spot horses, peacocks or chit-chat with the palace workers.

Ride on Namma Bangalore Metro 
Bangalore Metro covers a shot distance, from Bypanahalli to M.G Road. Take a swish train ride to view this Garden City from the heights.

Visit ITPL or Electronic City or Embassy Gold links IT Park (EGL)
Do you know where most of the young people work in Bangalore? Why is Bangalore called the Silicon valley of India? Find out by driving around the big IT parks and campus in Bangalore.

Visit Lal Bagh Gardens 
Fill your picnic basket with fruits, juice, water, book and plan a trip to Lal Bagh gardens in B’lore. Lie down or sit or just rest your back under the shade of big trees or on the green lawns of Lal Bagh gardens. Take time for yourself, or just use this time to re-plan your life. Sounds big…no, just listen to some music and you’ll have a great day.

Topple Pins – Go for Bowling 
Are you a bowling freak or just new to bowling? In any case, Bangalore has many places to practice bowling. If you’re at M.G Road, Amoebae at Church Street offers six lanes of bowling experience.

Akshyapathra Charity
An great initiative to feed  scores of children. Contribute some money or you can become a volunteer by helping in their charity works.

Visit Dance Bars in Bangalore 
It’s a local version of strip bar, but there’s no stripping here. Dance bars are strictly for men, unless you’re accompanied by a good number of male friends. Inside these dance bars, are fully dressed ladies who sway to the loud beat of Hindi movie songs. Also, you’ll see rich folks throwing wads of money at women. Off late, there’s a curb on dance bars. So, check if there’s real dancing or just watching!

Two dance bars near Domlur fly over – Chef Inn Regency, Knight Rider.

Have Beer at any of the Micro breweries
With many water holes spread around the city, you can go for binge drinking in Bangalore. Also, there’re few micro-breweries in Bangalore( TOIT at Indira Nagar, Vapor at 100 ft road, India Nagar, Beiere Club at Lavelle Road, Barleyz at Koramangala,).

And don’t forget to visit one of the oldest pub in B’lore – Pecos. Once it was a hangout of ad agency guys. Many of their copy are seen in the pub.

Pamper your feet with a relaxing foot massage 
Relax with a foot massage. Try out “TheHappyFeet“. They even have house visit. Dial 080-42281122 & they’ll bring that foot massage to your home! Monday to Sunday, 10 to 8 . They send out of the best Facebook page updates, better than Kingfisher page.

Coffee at Koshy’s Restaurant
Situated at the heart of Bangalore, Koshy’s is as old Bangalore. Here you’ll meet a eclectic section people of Bangalore here.

Cycle Trip around Bangalore
If you’re a biking enthusiast, then Bangalore has different cycle groups.

Rock climbing 
If you fall into these tightrope adventures seekers, then there’re couple of adventure clubs who can take you for rock scaling events. Most of the spots are located some 40 km away from the city.

Hard Rock Bangalore
Situated at Anil Kumble circle, at the Southern Part of M.G Road, you’ll find Hard Rock Cafe, Bangalore.  The granite walled building has very interesting music memorabilia, poster, instruments, so on.

Rent a friend in Bangalore
Try your luck by Googling for an escort services in Bangalore. Best, would be to ask for reference. Or, pay to people, who might be willing to be a friend for a day in Bangalore.

Visit Bangalore Turf
Get lucky by placing a bet on one of the stallions at the race course.

Boating at Ulsoor Lake
When traffic, horns, madding crowd takes a toll on you, then here’s an alternative. Take to the oars at Ulsoor lake.

Spa Service in Bangalore
Places like Indira Nagar is dotted with various Spa centers. There’s Escape, then Aura (Thai Spa), and many others in this locality.

Learn Indian Cooking in Bangalore 
If you have a passion for food or would like to know how Indian cooking is done, then you can try out Indian cooking class. Check out this blog Mennas Cooking Class and also the Facebook page on Indian cooking class.

Visit Lal Bagh Garden or Cubon Park
Enjoy a day in one of the sprawling gardens in Bangalore. Stroll through the large green spaces, carry a picnic basket and spend some time with yourself or read a book.

Rent a Car & Explore Bangalore Outskirts

Zoom Cars provide car rentals in Bangalore. Hire a car, take a friend and explore the villages around Bangalore. 

Fetish for Women with Glasses

Everyone has something very queer or hidden habit. And I’m no exception. Few people evidently display it, while others take it their fetish to the grave.

So, which category do you fall in? Are you the quiet one – the one who shows nothing on the outside, but has a queer living inside? Or are you the free spirited one, who crave to share your deep secrets with your close friends or with your life partner? Sometimes I wonder why some folks like me have a larger share of queerness, while many others  seems to be the normal breed.

Fetish in Us
For me, I have many kind of wierd stuff staking in me. And, this is one of it. Well, what I have here is this – I have an uncanny liking towards women with glasses. I wonder why I got this wierd liking, but it has been there with me since time immemorial.

So, before digging at my fetish, I went searching for other fetish behaviors. And as rightly thought, I came across all version and degrees of fetish.

Here’re few popular fetish list:

  • Fetish for leather
  • Turned on by high heeled foot ( strappy heals, stilettos) 
  • Fetish for gadgets, gizmos
  • Turned on by cuckold
  • Fetish to dab tears 
  • Turned by body piercing
  • Fetish for blindfold
  • and another 100 more..

Apart from this short list what turns you on? Do you have something more stranger than fiction?

As for me I get turned by women wearing specs. Not any women wearing specs, but the ones with the nerdish, or those having the bookish look, plus equally appealing physic.Very hard to describe in my vocabulary. And, I don’t have a picture to show.

Women in Glasses: Three Shades of Women
In a span of three months, I saw three women who absolutely fits the perfect model of my thoughts. One young dynamic girl with wire frame glass at HRC Bangalore, another chubby matured lady during a Volvo bus ride and finally this matured mother I met in a bank at Trivandrum. And she was the ultimate goddess!

This lady was accompanied by her teenage daughter and her husband. Peculiar feature of this lady was her thick black frame glasses ( one we see old B&W Malayalam movies). Did she step from such an era? And best part, she had pouty lips, with sensual appeal, elegance and maturity. What else do you need in a woman.

Hallelujah to all these great women…